{"id":22327,"date":"2023-06-09T14:02:37","date_gmt":"2023-06-09T14:02:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/?p=22327"},"modified":"2023-06-27T17:06:05","modified_gmt":"2023-06-27T17:06:05","slug":"tips-take-control-of-tech-use","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/tips-take-control-of-tech-use\/","title":{"rendered":"Tips to Take Control of Your Tech Use"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout has-medium-font-size\">Take control: With just a few simple steps, you can increase your digital well-being.&nbsp;<\/p><p><em>This article was originally written on the <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.humanetech.com\/take-control\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Center for Humane Technology<\/em><\/a><em>.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p><p>Here are a few important steps you can take right now to increase your digital well-being and regain control. Start with your own devices and invite friends or family to join you. Our collective individual actions are creating a powerful growing movement. Together, we can change the system.&nbsp;<\/p><p><em>Note: The resources linked here will direct you to organizations who we think are doing great work. These third-party sites are not formally affiliated with CHT and their content may change without notice. Please review with care and discretion.<\/em><\/p><h2 id=\"turn-off-notifications\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Turn Off Notifications<\/h2><p>Red is a trigger color that instantly draws our attention. Reclaim your time by turning off notifications.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"387\" src=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-1160x387.webp\" alt=\"social media icons with notifications on\" class=\"wp-image-22338\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-1160x387.webp 1160w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-800x267.webp 800w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-320x107.webp 320w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-1536x512.webp 1536w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-2048x683.webp 2048w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-120x40.webp 120w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-90x30.webp 90w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-560x187.webp 560w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-1920x640.webp 1920w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-600x200.webp 600w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/AppNotifications_content-scaled.webp 2560w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure><h3 id=\"take-control\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u200d<em>Go to <\/em><strong><em>Setting<\/em><\/strong><em>s &gt; <\/em><strong><em>Notifications<\/em><\/strong><em>, or swipe left on any incoming notification and hit <\/em><strong><em>Manage<\/em><\/strong><em> &gt; <\/em><strong><em>Turn Off<\/em><\/strong><em>.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"remove-toxic-apps\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Remove Toxic Apps<\/h2><p>Remove apps that profit off of addiction, distraction, outrage, polarization, and misinformation.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-2\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>\u200dRemove Facebook <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Message friends with <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/signal.org\/en\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Signal\u200d<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Remove TikTok <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Send video messages by direct text or with <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.marcopolo.me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Marco Polo<\/em><\/a><em>\u200d.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Remove Snapchat <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Get creative in Text instead\u200d.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Remove Instagram <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Use <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/vsco.co\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>VSCO<\/em><\/a><em> for photography\u200d.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout has-medium-font-size cnvs-block-core-paragraph-1686318832336\" style=\"padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\">Learn how to support your teen\u2019s digital health and wellness and help them be a good digital citizen <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/digital-wellness-helping-your-teen-take-control-of-their-life-online\/\">here<\/a>.<\/p><h2 id=\"download-helpful-tools\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Download Helpful Tools<\/h2><p>While we can\u2019t solve tech with more tech, there are some tools out there that can help. Here\u2019s our short list.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-3\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>\u200dGet more sleep and remove blue light \u2192 <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/justgetflux.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Flux\u200d<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n\n<li><em>Track your screen time &amp; change habits \u2192 For <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/support.apple.com\/guide\/iphone\/view-your-screen-time-summary-iph24dcd4fb8\/ios\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>iOS<\/em><\/a><em> and <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.lifewire.com\/check-screen-time-on-android-5069900\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Android\u200d<\/em><\/a><\/li>\n\n<li><em>Reduce distractions \u2192 <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/chrome.google.com\/webstore\/detail\/news-feed-eradicator-for\/fjcldmjmjhkklehbacihaiopjklihlgg?hl=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>News Feed Eradicator<\/em><\/a><em>\u200d<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><em>Stay focused on your goals \u2192 <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.flipdapp.co\/flipd-making-productivity-social\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Flipd<\/em><\/a><em>\u200d<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><em>Practice mindfulness \u2192 <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/insighttimer.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Insight Timer<\/em><\/a><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"eliminate-outrage-from-your-diet\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Eliminate Outrage From Your Diet<\/h2><p>We vote with our clicks. Don\u2019t support sites that pollute our cultural environment with vitriol via clickbait and outrage.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-4\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>\u200dUnfollow outrage-chasing voices on Twitter<\/em><\/strong><em> \u2192 Use <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/iunfollow.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>iUnfollow<\/em><\/a><em> to clean up your following. Start fresh and intentionally choose the voices you expose yourself to.\u200d<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Unfollow outrage-driven Facebook Groups<\/em><\/strong><em> \u2192 Check your <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/facebook.com\/groups\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Groups<\/em><\/a><em> &gt; Settings &gt; Following\u200d<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Remove sharply polarized media outlets from your news feed<\/em><\/strong><em> \u2192 Both MSNBC &amp; FOXNews<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"follow-voices-you-disagree-with\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Follow Voices You Disagree With<\/h2><p>Social media serves us content we already agree with to keep us online longer, eroding our ability to engage with people who don\u2019t share our views. To solve problems from poverty to racism to climate change, we have to come together and expose ourselves to different perspectives.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-5\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>\u200dCheck news sites whose perspectives you disagree with <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.allsides.com\/unbiased-balanced-news\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>AllSides<\/em><\/a><em> gives readers a cross-partisan view of world events covered by the media, and sustains itself on a consciously created hybrid revenue model to avoid bias and clickbait incentives.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"be-compassionate\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Be Compassionate<\/h2><p>Social media profits off hate and anger because it generates more engagement. Let\u2019s fight back with compassion.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"387\" src=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-1160x387.webp\" alt=\"Illustration of hand holding phone texting a compassionate message to friend.\" class=\"wp-image-22337\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-1160x387.webp 1160w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-800x267.webp 800w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-320x107.webp 320w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-1536x512.webp 1536w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-2048x683.webp 2048w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-120x40.webp 120w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-90x30.webp 90w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-560x187.webp 560w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-1920x640.webp 1920w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-600x200.webp 600w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/TextingHand_content-scaled.webp 2560w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure><h3 id=\"take-control-6\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>\u200dPause<\/em><\/strong><em> \u2192 Remember there\u2019s a real person behind the screen; don\u2019t be so quick to unfollow or publicly argue with someone who posts something you disagree with\u200d.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Be compassionate <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Try a private message to ask why they feel that way, with genuine curiosity and a desire to understand.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"set-boundaries\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Set Boundaries<\/h2><p>We use our phones and news feeds from the moment we wake up, to falling asleep, and even in the bathroom.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-7\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>\u200d<\/em><strong><em>Clear your mornings &amp; evenings <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Set clear bounded blocks of time without technology.\u200d<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Device-free dinners <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Play a game where the first person to check their device does the dishes\u200d.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Create a shared charging station at home <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Charge your family\u2019s phones away from bedrooms overnight\u200d.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>Buy a separate alarm clock <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Wake up without getting sucked into your phone first thing in the morning.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"fully-disconnect-one-day-per-week\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fully Disconnect One Day Per Week<\/h2><p>Disconnecting can be a powerful way to reconnect with yourself and your loved ones. It\u2019s not only good for you \u2014 collectively we can reduce time spent on social media platforms by 15%, impacting bottom lines.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-8\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>\u200dPick a date and let your friends and family know you\u2019ll be offline<\/em><\/strong><em> \u2192 Or better yet, invite them to join you.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"remember-the-positive\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Remember the Positive<\/h2><p>If you receive 99 positive comments on a post and 1 negative comment, which do you focus on? Our survival-biased brains tend to focus on the negative, even after we turn away from our tech.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"387\" src=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-1160x387.webp\" alt=\"Teen girl smiling sitting outside with skateboard on her phone, teen on smartphone, social media\" class=\"wp-image-22336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-1160x387.webp 1160w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-800x267.webp 800w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-320x107.webp 320w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-1536x512.webp 1536w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-120x40.webp 120w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-90x30.webp 90w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-560x187.webp 560w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content-600x200.webp 600w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/SkateboardGirl_Content.webp 1800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure><h3 id=\"take-control-9\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong><em>Take screenshots of the positive messages you receive to store in a folder on your phone <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Let the rest go. Tech warps how our brains receive feedback, and we can fight back by remembering the positive.<\/em><\/li>\n\n<li><strong><em>\u200dPractice cultivating gratitude for others and using technology to share your love <\/em><\/strong><em>\u2192 Send a special video to a friend with Tribute or Montage.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"support-local-journalism\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Support Local Journalism<\/h2><p>Don\u2019t force your local newspaper to play social media\u2019s clickbait game. Support your local newspaper directly by paying for a subscription so that we can remain the customer, not the product. Democracy doesn\u2019t work without healthy journalism.<\/p><h3 id=\"take-control-10\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Take Control<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>\u200dFind your local newspapers and support them \u2192 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.usnpl.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">USNPL directory<\/a><\/li>\n\n<li>Upgrade your membership on platforms that provide meaningful content.<\/li><\/ul><p><em>This article was originally published on Center for Humane Technology and only minimally edited for clarity. Read the article in its <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.humanetech.com\/take-control#tools\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>original publication<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p><h2 id=\"more-about-taking-control-of-tech-use\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">More About Taking Control of Tech Use<\/h2><p>Learn how to help protect your preteen or teen online. BLOOM is here to help, whether you are looking for tips on <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/how-to-talk-to-your-child-about-internet-safety\/\">how to talk to your kids about internet safety<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/18-tips-to-keep-your-teen-or-tween-safe-online\/\">tech security tips to protect them online<\/a>, or even in-depth and personalized <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/ask-the-expert-coming-soon\/\">Q&amp;As<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/workshops-coming-soon\/\">workshops<\/a>. Raising young people is hard enough. We are here to help demystify and provide support!<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Learn how to take control of your and your kids\u2019 tech use. 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