{"id":22294,"date":"2023-06-08T15:46:15","date_gmt":"2023-06-08T15:46:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/?p=22294"},"modified":"2023-06-27T15:30:42","modified_gmt":"2023-06-27T15:30:42","slug":"understanding-gender-binary-and-nonbinary","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/understanding-gender-binary-and-nonbinary\/","title":{"rendered":"Understanding Gender Binary and Nonbinary"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout has-medium-font-size\">It\u2019s essential to learn that gender roles are fluid, and here\u2019s how to support the nonbinary young person in your life.<\/p><p><em>Author Jen Bell  |  Reviewed by Mason Dunn<\/em><\/p><p>Do you have a young adult in your life who may be exploring the gender binary? Maybe they\u2019re just dipping their toes in the pool of gender identity, or perhaps they\u2019re already on the journey. Either way, thinking about gender expression and gender binary can seem like a huge undertaking for any adult, young or older.&nbsp;<\/p><p>For some young adults, the journey of exploring their gender identity can be overwhelming and confusing. But with more information and support available than ever before, there&#8217;s never been a better time to start understanding and embracing who we truly are.&nbsp;<\/p><p>With this in mind, we\u2019ll take a look at the gender binary and non-binary concepts for expression. Gender roles are fluid and will continually evolve throughout time and within our society. Keep scrolling to get more information, and how to talk to your teen about genders and nonbinary genders.<\/p><h2 id=\"what-are-binary-genders\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Are Binary Genders?<\/h2><p>In many societies the two binary genders \u2014 boy\/man and girl\/woman \u2014 are the only ones recognized as being legitimate. People of binary genders, whether cisgender or transgender, are unfairly privileged compared to nonbinary people.<\/p><p>A binary is a system only encompassing two options. The gender binary is a concept in which that a \u201cman\u201d and \u201cwoman\u201d are the only two genders, that they\u2019re opposites, and that every person must be comfortable in the gender identity, expression and role that is assigned to them at birth. The gender binary is limiting for people both inside and outside it, and it fails to reflect the true diversity of genders in existence.&nbsp;<\/p><p>The gender binary also can assume that sex assigned at birth and gender identity are the same thing. Meaning that being a man means one is assigned male at birth, or being a woman means one is assigned female at birth. This binary also does not reflect the real diversity of experiences in gender.&nbsp;<\/p><h2 id=\"nonbinary-genders\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Nonbinary Genders<\/h2><p>A nonbinary person is someone whose gender identity cannot be defined within the margins of the gender binary. They understand their gender in a way that goes beyond simply identifying as either a man or woman.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Nonbinary is an umbrella term for a spectrum of gender identities and expressions, including agender, bigender, genderqueer, neutrois, and genderfluid. Agender people do not identify with any gender. Not all nonbinary people identify as transgender, and not all trans people identify as nonbinary.<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1160\" height=\"601\" src=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-1160x601.webp\" alt=\"Binary and Non Binary definitions chart\" class=\"wp-image-22298\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-1160x601.webp 1160w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-800x414.webp 800w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-320x166.webp 320w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-1536x795.webp 1536w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-120x62.webp 120w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-90x47.webp 90w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-560x290.webp 560w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content-600x311.webp 600w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/06\/BinaryandNonBinaryChart_content.webp 1800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1160px) 100vw, 1160px\" \/><\/figure><h2 id=\"are-all-nonbinary-people-transgender\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Are All Nonbinary People Transgender?&nbsp;<\/h2><p>No. There have always been transgender people who felt that their gender identity didn\u2019t fall neatly into the two binary categories of \u201cman\u201d or \u201cwoman.\u201d In the past, trans people who felt that way used the words genderqueer and genderfluid to describe their experience. Those words are still used today, and are a part of a larger umbrella term commonly described as the \u201cnonbinary umbrella.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"What it means to be non-binary\" width=\"1160\" height=\"653\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/d37gxmX8hCk?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure><p>Many people who describe their gender identity as nonbinary also call themselves transgender \u2014 but not all. The word nonbinary has grown in popularity and it now means many different things to different people.&nbsp;<\/p><p>The main thing to understand is that there is no one right or wrong way to be nonbinary, just like there is no right or wrong way to be transgender. We need to listen to how someone identifies, and respect the words they use to describe themselves.<\/p><h2 id=\"gender-and-intersex\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Gender and Intersex<\/h2><p>Being intersex is different from being transgender or non-binary. Someone who is <strong>transgender<\/strong> has a gender (such as male, female, or non-binary) that is different from what was assumed when they were born.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Someone who is <strong>intersex <\/strong>developed one or more bodily characteristics that don\u2019t fit neatly into stereotypes about \u201cmale\u201d or \u201cfemale\u201d bodies. Someone can be both intersex and transgender, but being intersex doesn\u2019t automatically make someone transgender or non-binary, just like being transgender or non-binary doesn\u2019t mean that someone is intersex. Learn more in our article on <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/what-is-intersex\/\">intersex<\/a>.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p><figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"What It&#039;s Like To Be Intersex\" width=\"1160\" height=\"653\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/cAUDKEI4QKI?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure><h2 id=\"tools-for-reflecting-on-your-understanding-of-gender\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Tools for Reflecting on Your Understanding of Gender&nbsp;<\/h2><p>So, how can you be more open and understanding with the teens in your life? The first step is to take the time to assess your own beliefs about gender \u2014&nbsp;this helps you be more open and understanding. We recommend these tools:&nbsp;<\/p><h3 id=\"my-gender-journey\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">My Gender Journey<\/h3><p>Gender Spectrum has created <em>My Gender Journey<\/em>, an online exercise to help parents, caregivers, and professionals to reflect on the ways that gender expectations have influenced our relationships, education, career, and other aspects of our lives.&nbsp;<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tfaforms.com\/4778277\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">My Gender Journey &#8211; for Parents and Adult Family Members<\/a><\/li>\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tfaforms.com\/4759121\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">My Gender Journey &#8211;&nbsp; for Professionals who work with children or families<\/a><\/li><\/ul><h3 id=\"my-new-gender-workbook-by-kate-bornstein\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">My New Gender Workbook by Kate Bornstein<\/h3><p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3sn1Hef\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>My New Gender Workbook<\/strong><\/a> is a fun and provocative book that examines gender in light of issues like race, class, sexuality, and language, and offers quizzes, puzzles, and exercises to help the reader challenge and question their own ideas and assumptions about gender.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Remember, there&#8217;s no timeline or rush when it comes to understanding and exploring gender identity. As an adult, it\u2019s essential to model this behavior \u2014&nbsp;whether it\u2019s ongoing reflection and\/or open communication, self-love, or something else \u2014&nbsp;take time to process. And, always encourage a young adult to take the time they need, to lean on supportive friends, family, or community members, and to always be proud of who they are every step of the way.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is the gender binary? 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