{"id":22004,"date":"2023-04-07T14:24:38","date_gmt":"2023-04-07T14:24:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parent.bloomforall.com\/?p=22004"},"modified":"2023-10-09T23:46:20","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T23:46:20","slug":"supporting-transgender-youth-with-periods","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/supporting-transgender-youth-with-periods\/","title":{"rendered":"Supporting Transgender Youth With Periods"},"content":{"rendered":"

An inclusive guide to puberty, periods, and providing support through period dysphoria.<\/p>

Author Jen Bell | Reviewed by Staci Tanouye, M.D.<\/em><\/p>

Going through puberty and starting your first period can be challenging for anyone, and being transgender adds another emotional layer. Many, but not all, trans and nonbinary youth experience gender dysphoria or period dysphoria \u2013 when a person experiences distress because of a mismatch between their anatomy and their gender identity. <\/p>

If your preteen or teen doesn\u2019t identify as a girl but still gets a period, this can cause discomfort and anxiety \u2014 especially because many people still equate menstruation with \u201cfemaleness.\u201d<\/p>

Learn how to be a supportive caregiver, especially around your transgender youth and menstruation.<\/p>

When to Start Talking About Periods<\/h2>

You want to explain menstruation well before you think they will start puberty. Periods can start in kids as young as 8 years old, and trends show that the age periods start continues to trend downward<\/a>. Consider having an initial conversation about periods early so that by the time they have their period, it is normalized.<\/p>

 Need advice on how to approach the <\/em>period talk<\/em><\/a>? Learn how to bring up the menstruation conversation. <\/em><\/p>

BLOOM TIP > If your teen prefers to learn about menstruation on their own time, encourage them to explore the BLOOM TEEN HUB<\/a>.<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div>

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How to Talk About Menstruation With Inclusivity<\/h2>

Be Supportive<\/h3>

The most important thing when talking about periods with your trans or nonbinary preteen or teen is to mention that they’re normal. Being someone who can menstruate does not mean that your child is a girl or woman. <\/p>

Be gentle, be flexible, and don\u2019t be pushy. Offer your preteen or teen lots of resources and listen to what they have to say. They’ll open up when they’re ready.<\/p>

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Be Mindful of Your Language<\/h3>

Changing the way you talk about periods with your child can make a huge difference. It’s easy to make statements like \u201cnow you\u2019re a woman!\u201d but try not to. <\/p>

Speak about periods in a gender-neutral way. You can say “menstrual products” instead of “feminine products.” It\u2019s a small change in language, but you can make period talk feel much more affirming for your preteen or teen. If you change how you think and talk about periods, your child might be more willing to talk with you about them.<\/p>

Ask How They Want to Talk About Their Period<\/h3>

Next, talk to your preteen or teen and see how they want to talk about their period. Maybe they want to call it their “time of the month,” or maybe saying “period” is fine for them. They might want to refer to themselves as \u201csomeone who can menstruate.\u201d <\/p>

The important thing is that you ask them! Reassure them that you want to talk about their period on their terms, and then listen and use the language they ask you to use.<\/p>

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Help Them Find Period Products<\/h2>

Ask your preteen or teen what kinds of period products they want, and be willing to experiment. Some transgender teens or preteens don’t like how pads make them very aware they are bleeding, and some don’t like tampons or menstrual cups because they don’t want to insert anything in their vagina. <\/p>

Offer to get them whatever products make them feel comfortable. Be flexible \u2014 what might feel good one month might not feel good another one.<\/p>

Check out our period product guide<\/a> for a comprehensive guide on menstruation product options.<\/p>

Encourage Them To Track Their Period<\/h2>

When your preteen or teen tracks their period they can be prepared for when their next period is coming, and have all the information they need for their next doctor or gynecologist visit. <\/p>

Finding Support for Transgender and Nonbinary Menstruation<\/h2>

If menstruating really bothers your preteen or teen, seek support \u2014 find the right health care provider that can support you and your preteen or teen with gender-affirming recommendations for their period.<\/p>

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Being a nonbinary or transgender teen with a period can add a layer of gender and period dysphoria. Learn how to support your youth who can menstruate with this guide.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":204,"featured_media":22006,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[379,380],"tags":[],"powerkit_post_featured":[],"coauthors":[341,343],"class_list":{"0":"post-22004","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-healthy-body","8":"category-menstruation"},"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22004","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/204"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22004"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22004\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22006"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22004"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22004"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22004"},{"taxonomy":"powerkit_post_featured","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/powerkit_post_featured?post=22004"},{"taxonomy":"author","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/coauthors?post=22004"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}