{"id":21941,"date":"2023-04-05T17:15:22","date_gmt":"2023-04-05T17:15:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/parent.bloomforall.com\/?p=21941"},"modified":"2023-10-09T23:19:59","modified_gmt":"2023-10-09T23:19:59","slug":"5-ways-to-manage-your-anxiety","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/5-ways-to-manage-your-anxiety\/","title":{"rendered":"5 Ways to Manage Your Anxiety\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout has-medium-font-size\">\u201cAnxiety is a thin stream of fear trickling through the mind. If encouraged, it cuts a channel into which all other thoughts are drained.\u201d \u2013 Arthur Somers Roche, American author<\/p><p><em>This article was written by Adam Brady and originally published on <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/online-sexual-exploitation-enticement\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Chopra.com<\/a><\/em>.<\/p><p>There\u2019s no escaping the fact that we live in stress-inducing times. A global pandemic, loss of jobs, and civil and political unrest\u2014all amid a presidential election year in the US\u2014have set the stage for even the calmest among us to feel a little ill at ease. These challenging times aren\u2019t a prerequisite for anxiety, however. Anxiety can happen to any of us for a variety of reasons. According to the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychiatry.org\/patients-families\/anxiety-disorders\/what-are-anxiety-disorders\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">American Psychiatric Association<\/a>, \u201cAnxiety disorders are the most common of mental disorders and affect nearly 30 percent of adults at some point in their lives.\u201d Anxiety may be mild, manifesting as low-grade fear or worry, or it may be severe and totally debilitating. Regardless of the degree, anxiety in all its forms is a chaotic, unhealthy, and unpleasant state that we need to learn to manage.<\/p><p>In its most basic definition, anxiety is an intense and overreactive fear and worry about daily life and situations. Anxiety is like run-of-the-mill fear amped up on steroids. It has a cascading, snowball-like effect of one fear or worry piling on another, and another until you\u2019re caught up in a full-blown avalanche of panic.<\/p><p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout has-medium-font-size cnvs-block-core-paragraph-1680713347469\" style=\"padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\">BLOOM Note  &gt;  Learn how to <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/signs-anxiety-in-teens\/\">recognize teen anxiety and provide support here.<\/a>&nbsp;<\/p><h2 id=\"the-roots-of-anxiety\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">The Roots of Anxiety<\/h2><p>Although <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/anxiety\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20350961\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">anxiety\u2019s roots<\/a> may be due to multiple causative factors, one primary trigger can be due to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mayoclinic.org\/diseases-conditions\/anxiety\/symptoms-causes\/syc-20350961\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">stress buildup<\/a> triggering the autonomic nervous system\u2019s fight-or-flight response.&nbsp;<\/p><p>This survival mechanism is a carryover from our primitive ancestors who always had to be on the lookout for attacks of wild animals, enemy tribes, or natural disasters. In those times, fear, worry, and paranoia helped humans survive.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Our ancestors who were perpetually on-guard, twitchy, and anxious spotted trouble early enough to survive it. Those who weren\u2019t vigilant against perpetual dangers didn\u2019t live to tell the tale or pass their genetic traits on to future generations. We carry this genetic disposition for fear and worry deep within us. Whether we want to admit it or not, deep within, there\u2019s a little scared and shaking prehistoric mammal cowering from danger on the forest floor.<\/p><p>Although we no longer live in prehistoric times, when a mental or emotional tipping point is reached in our day to day lives, the rattled nervous system still sends the fight\/flight signal throughout the physiology to elevate heart rate, blood pressure, and respiration, release stress hormones, redirect the circulation, and increase perspiration and muscle tension. Hence an imagined fear or worry creates a very tangible expression in mind and body. (1)<\/p><h3 id=\"this-background-is-important-for-two-reasons\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">This Background Is Important for Two Reasons.<\/h3><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>When we recognize that at a certain level anxiety is wired into our nervous system, we can be more compassionate toward ourselves rather than feeling guilty or as if there is something wrong with us for feeling anxious. If we know the potential exists, we can be easier on ourselves when an event or situation triggers it to run out of control.<\/li>\n\n<li>Once we understand the mechanics of anxiety in general, we\u2019re better equipped to learn tools to help us self-regulate our nervous system and relieve some of anxiety\u2019s effects.<\/li><\/ul><h2 id=\"what-does-self-regulation-mean\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Does Self-Regulation mean?<\/h2><p>A somewhat new term in wellness circles is <em>self-regulation<\/em>. Essentially, this means that one has control over oneself <em>by oneself<\/em>. In other words, we actively manage our thoughts, our emotions, and behavior to lead toward greater homeostasis and balance.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Opposed to feeling as if our mental, emotional, and physical health and happiness are predetermined and beyond our control, self-regulation implies that through appropriate lifestyle choices, your mind-body system has an amazing ability to correct itself.<\/p><p>Self-regulation practices help the mind-body let go of chronic stress, worry, and the debilitating effects of anxiety and panic. They gently coax the nervous system off the ledge and settle it back down to a more nourishing state. Many of these techniques help to stimulate the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pmc\/articles\/PMC6189422\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">vagus nerve<\/a>, the primary nerve pathway associated with the parasympathetic, or the rest-and-digest function of the nervous system.<\/p><h2 id=\"review-each-approach-below-to-discover-how-they-can-benefit-your-anxiety-management-strategy\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Review each approach below to discover how they can benefit your anxiety management strategy.<\/h2><h3 id=\"1-breathing-techniques-pranayama-practice\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Breathing Techniques (Pranayama Practice)<\/h3><p>Your state of mind is deeply intertwined with your breathing. Your mental activity is directly correlated to the speed and rhythm of your breath\u2014an agitated and anxious mind is reflected in rapid and shallow breathing, not unlike a scared forest creature.&nbsp;<\/p><p>A settled and calm mind, which activates the grow, heal, and restore functions of our nervous system,(2) is mirrored in deep, slow, and steady breathing. Therefore, conscious, deep breathing can be a powerful tool to settle anxious thoughts and emotions. <em>Pranayama<\/em>, or yogic breathing practices contain several techniques that are uniquely suited to restore balance to your nervous systems.<\/p><h3 id=\"2-meditation\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Meditation<\/h3><p>Of all the mind-body techniques, <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/boosting-confidence-through-meditation\/\" title=\"Anxiety in Teens: The Types, Symptoms, Treatment, and How to Provide Support\">meditation<\/a> stands out as the most foundational of all practices to down-regulate the hyperactivity of our turbulent nervous system. When the thought stream begins to settle, even a little, both mind and body relax, all the biological markers of stress are reversed (3), and your awareness expands into the non-local realm beyond conditioned thinking.&nbsp;<\/p><p>Meditation doesn\u2019t have to be complicated to have a profound effect on the mind and body. Sometimes the simplest techniques can have a big return on investment.<\/p><p><\/p><div class=\"wp-block-cover alignfull is-light wp-duotone-rgb225694-rgb23247179-2\" style=\"margin-top:0;padding-top:48px;padding-right:48px;padding-bottom:48px;padding-left:48px;min-height:582px;aspect-ratio:unset;\"><span aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"wp-block-cover__background has-background-dim-30 has-background-dim\"><\/span><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1920\" height=\"700\" class=\"wp-block-cover__image-background wp-image-21455\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen.jpg\" style=\"object-position:81% 44%\" data-object-fit=\"cover\" data-object-position=\"81% 44%\" srcset=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-800x292.jpg 800w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-1160x423.jpg 1160w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-320x117.jpg 320w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-1536x560.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-120x44.jpg 120w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-90x33.jpg 90w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-560x204.jpg 560w, https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/4\/2023\/03\/Caregiver_Teen_Talking_screen-600x219.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1920px) 100vw, 1920px\" \/><div class=\"wp-block-cover__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-cover-is-layout-flow\"><div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-constrained wp-container-core-group-is-layout-1 wp-block-group-is-layout-constrained\"><h2 id=\"ready-to-elevate-your-parenting-become-a-member-of-the-bloom-family-today\" class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:33px;font-style:normal;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:0px;line-height:1.1;text-transform:uppercase\">Ready to elevate your parenting? Become a member of the BLOOM family today! <\/h2>\n\n<h2 id=\"gain-access-to-workshops-coaching-and-a-network-of-supportive-parents-dont-navigate-this-journey-alone\" class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center has-white-color has-text-color\" style=\"font-size:33px;font-style:normal;font-weight:700;letter-spacing:0px;line-height:1.1;text-transform:uppercase\">Gain access to workshops, coaching, and a network of supportive parents. Don\u2019t navigate this journey alone &#8211;<\/h2><\/div><\/div>\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-nowrap is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-1 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\"><div class=\"wp-block-button has-custom-font-size is-style-outline is-style-outline--1\" style=\"font-size:27px;font-style:normal;font-weight:600;letter-spacing:0px;text-transform:uppercase\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-text-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/\" style=\"border-radius:65px;padding-top:11px;padding-right:48px;padding-bottom:11px;padding-left:48px\">JOIN TODAY<\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><h3 id=\"3-yoga-asana-practice\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Yoga Asana Practice<\/h3><p>The poses or <em>asanas <\/em>of classical Hatha Yoga can have a powerful effect on modifying your mind-body state.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Yoga poses liberate blocked or jittery subtle energy that may have accumulated in different parts of your body.<\/li>\n\n<li>By its nature, anxiety has a paralyzing, deer-in-headlights quality to it in which we may freeze out of overwhelming mental input. Yoga poses encourage movement to crack the shell of extreme muscle tension and enable more productive physical action.If feelings of anxiety and worry had a physical manifestation in your body, they would most likely take the shape of hunched shoulders, a rounded or flexed back, and a collapsed chest in what could be called fear pose. However, by practicing yoga asanas, especially those that lengthen the spine, roll the shoulders back and down, and open the chest, our bodies begin to embody calm, strength, and confidence\u2014traits that carry over equally to our mental state.<\/li><\/ul><h3 id=\"4-the-law-of-least-effort\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. The Law of Least Effort<\/h3><p>In Deepak Chopra\u2019s book, <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3rAL5iO\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\"><em>The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success<\/em>,<\/a> we learn of seven principles for living life in alignment with the laws of nature. The fourth law, the Law of Least Effort, contains two powerful concepts that can help us reframe our perceptions of challenges in our lives and help us to shift out of our more primitive anxiety-based responses.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Practice acceptance<\/strong>. Acceptance arises when we recognize that this moment is the result of all the moments in the past and to struggle against what is to struggle against the entire universe. Acceptance doesn\u2019t mean passivity. It doesn\u2019t mean we have like the way things are right now; however, it means we are willing to allow things to be as they are because it both conserves our energy and eliminates the frustration of pointless struggle. Until we accept a situation, we won\u2019t have the power to do anything about it.<\/li>\n\n<li><strong>Take responsibility. <\/strong>Taking responsibility means that we are each responsible for our mental state. This is the heart of self-regulation\u2014consciously thinking, speaking, and acting to harmonize and balance our system for optimum well-being. We are ultimately responsible for how we perceive the world and are therefore able to respond<em> <\/em>as we see fit. As former first lady, Eleanor Roosevelt reminds us, \u201cNo one can make you feel inferior without your consent.\u201d When we let go of blame, we\u2019re more able to take self-determined action for our highest good.<\/li><\/ul><h3 id=\"5-the-law-of-detachment\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. The Law of Detachment<\/h3><p>Similarly, the sixth Spiritual Law of Success, the Law of Detachment also contains two principles that can help us recontextualize our life circumstances to weaken anxiety\u2019s grip over our lives.<\/p><ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>Live with detachment.<\/strong> The world\u2019s wisdom traditions remind us that one of the primary causes of suffering is <em>attachment<\/em>, or clinging to objects of desire (things, relationships, conditions). Attachment is essentially insecurity in disguise\u2014the need to hold on to the way things are and the way you want them to be. This search for security can be endless because it\u2019s ultimately an illusion, an attachment to a past that no longer exists. Thus, the more we embrace detachment, the more freedom we will experience in our lives.<\/li>\n\n<li><strong>Step into uncertainty.<\/strong> Despite our often compulsive desire to control the outer conditions of life, certainty is never guaranteed. Instead, what is certain is the exact opposite: Change, unpredictability, impermanence, and uncertainty are at the heart of the world we live in. However, when we\u2019re attached, we\u2019re stuck in the known, imprisoned by our past conditioning. Only by embracing uncertainty can we consciously step into the unknown and discover that despite what our fears and anxieties have made us believe, this mystery contains the fertile field of opportunity and true safety that lives at the core of our being.<\/li><\/ul><p>Remember, if you\u2019re experiencing anxiety during these challenging times, you\u2019re not alone. As you navigate your wellness journey, consider exploring some of these strategies to enhance your ability to regulate your nervous system, restore balance, and rediscover the deep sea of calm within.<\/p><p>Discover more tools for self-care with guided meditations and personalized practices on the <a href=\"https:\/\/chopra.onelink.me\/XGnh\/f292e0bc\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\">Chopra App<\/a>.<\/p><p class=\"is-style-cnvs-paragraph-callout has-medium-font-size cnvs-block-core-paragraph-1680713347621\" style=\"padding-top:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-right:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-bottom:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60);padding-left:var(--wp--preset--spacing--60)\">BLOOM Note  &gt; Anxiety is a normal body response, especially and even during healthy confrontation. Learn more about how to spot and provide <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/signs-anxiety-in-teens\/\" title=\"Anxiety in Teens: The Types, Symptoms, Treatment, and How to Provide Support\">support to your teen during times of anxiety.<\/a>&nbsp;<\/p><p><em><strong>Sources:<\/strong><\/em><br><em>1:<\/em> <em>The Relaxation Response<\/em> by Herbert Benson, M.D. Harper Collins, 1975, 2001 pg. 8-10<br><em>2:<\/em> <em>The Wisdom of Healing<\/em> by David Simon, M.D. Three Rivers Press, 1997 pg. 111<br><em>3:<\/em> <em>Grow Younger, Live Longer<\/em> by Deepak Chopra, MD and David Simon, MD. Three Rivers Press, 2001. pg 47<\/p><p><strong>*Editor\u2019s Note: <\/strong><em>The information in this article is intended for your educational use only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health providers with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition and before undertaking any diet, supplement, fitness, or other health programs.<\/em><\/p><p><em>This article was originally published on Chopra.com, <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/chopra.com\/articles\/5-ways-to-manage-your-anxiety\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\" title=\"\"><em>read the article in its original publication<\/em><\/a><em>.<\/em><\/p><h2 id=\"explore-more-on-how-to-ease-anxiety\" class=\"wp-block-heading\">Explore More on How to Ease Anxiety<\/h2><p>If you are still feeling overwhelmed, don\u2019t worry! BLOOM is here to help. With our library of&nbsp; <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/\" title=\"\">On-Demand Workshops<\/a> with our trusted educators, to our <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/\" title=\"\">Ask the Expert Forum<\/a>&nbsp;where you can get answers to your burning questions from our qualified professionals, to <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/\" title=\"\">Supportive Community<\/a>, where you can find strength in a community of other parents and caregivers, to <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomforall.com\/parent\/\" title=\"\">Direct 1-on-1 Parent Coaching Support<\/a>, we\u2019ve got you. Raising tweens or teens is hard enough. BLOOM is here to make it a little easier.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Anxiety is a normal, natural \u00a0body response. 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